Embracing the Flow: Gate 20 and the Dance of Divine Timing in Human Design

Let go of comfort, control, and common sense.....

How many times as a child or teenager were you told to "use your head," "think things through," or "let's put our heads together and think"?

Gate 20 is going to feel a bit uncomfortable if you are deeply conditioned to be "on" all the time and in full control. It’s the essence of BEing and doing becomes second nature. The ability to return to the present moment, allows answers to flow through you instead of being caught in the constant biofeedback of our minds.

When we're always busy and in action, we skim the surface of life without real depth. There are times when we need to take a deep dive—sit, meditate, be in the present moment, and let our intuition guide our next move. Being present with presence.

Imagine you're at a networking event with so many people that you are excited to meet and callab with. You're moving from group to group, exchanging social media accounts, sharing ideas, and absorbing the environment around you. It’s vibrant and exhilarating, but also overwhelming.

Instead of bumbling around with the fear of fomo, you choose a different vibe. You find a comfortable spot and take a moment to breathe and center yourself. As you reconnect with yourself, your eye catches a fun crowd that is lit up about a topic that you can talk about for hours.

They wave you over, "invited and recognized," You begin chatting, and all eyes and ears are on you . You are in the zone, words flowing effortlessly and hitting everyone's sacred "hell yes!"

This leads to an invitation to collaborate on a new mastermind that feels so juicy—and you smile, inwardly patting yourself on the back because you surrendered to the flow.

This subtle act of surrender, and trust, allowed you to align with an opportunity that felt like it was waiting just for you. It wasn't about forcing action but allowing the right action to manifest through clarity and readiness—masterfully showcasing patience in action!

Remember to tap into the feminine flow of allowing, trusting, and surrendering, even just for a moment. Then, when you are ready to act, use masculine energy in harmony with divine timing. This allows you to use your energy sustainably, prioritizing quality over quantity.

I don't know about you, but as a projector, I am all about working smarter rather than harder.

Main Message:

Hey, remember all those times you were told to "use your head" or "think things through"? Embracing patience offers a refreshing pause from that old playbook. This is about waiting and allowing the answers to effortlessly find you in the present moment. It’s about being so fully here that every intuition, synchronity, and coincidence feels like a whisper directly from the universe.

Flow (High Expression):

When you're in flow, aligned with the present moment, you find depth in simplicity, richness in that delicious pause. Your actions may be few, but they are impactful. You dance with divine timing, knowing exactly when to leap into action and when to come back to inner stillness. It’s like you’re dancing to the rhythm of life’s deepest truths, perfectly synced to the music of the moment.

The Work (Low Expression):

Sometimes, we get caught up in the fomo, hustle and forget the flow. In these moments, you might find yourself creating chaos out of boredom, filling every moment with noise and activity. The challenge is to catch yourself being mindlessly busy without judgment and gently guide yourself back to the power of the present moment. Remember, it's okay to slow down, take a breath, and just be. The work is in trusting that stillness can be just as productive as action. (I am learning this one with you.)

Bottom Line:

It's not about just doing less; it’s about BEing more. Embrace this gentle call to be present with presence. Balance your masculine drive with the feminine art of allowing. Trust in the divine timing, and know that your energy is precious—best used with intention and care. Make your movements count, not by filling them with action but by infusing them with awareness.

Journal Prompts:

💫 When have you felt pressured to keep busy, and how did it affect your ability to be present?

💫 Reflect on a time when being still brought you clarity or unexpected opportunities.

💫 What are some ways you can practice being present in your daily activities?

Action Step: Practice Mindful Pauses: This week, try integrating short, mindful pauses into your day. Whether before meetings, during meals, or after work, take a moment to just breathe and be. It's spring here on the western hemisphere, go out and smell the blossoms. These pauses can help you reset your vibe, listen to your intuition, and get back in sync with the dance of the divine.