Integrity Is the New Flex (And You Can’t Fake It)

I have studied a lot of sales and marketing since I started my business back in 2020.

I have been on the receiving end of pressure, like a coach at the end of a sales call literally cheering me on as I max out a credit card on a high ticket coaching program that I had no business being in!

Or, most recently, watching in absolute horror, as women were signing up for a program being completely charged up with FOMO and scarcity, like this dude was going to be their saviour.

He had 10 minutes to make X amount of sales and he nailed it! But it was so gross!!!

You know that moment when someone tries to sell you something
and your whole body goes:
“Nope. Absolutely not.”

Even though there is a value stack with thousands of dollars worth of time limited offers.

That’s not anxiety.
That’s not self-sabotage.
That’s not being “difficult.”

That is your nervous system waking up to its own sovereignty. (right to choose)

What feels “off” is anything that no longer aligns with this new level of consciousness.

To understand why this shift is happening, we have to go back, not to strategy, not to business history, but to collective energetic history.

I could get really nerdy here. Read up on Dr. David Hawkins work (Power VS Force) for more information.

For centuries humanity lived below the vibrational threshold known as courage. In 1781, we had a mutation according to human design, and this is where we split from a 7 centered human being to a 9 centered being.

We are still in the early stages of developing our ego (will center) and allowing our emotional solar plexus to become an awareness center, instead of a motor.

Below 200 on the Hawkins scale, survival was the operating system.

Shame of not BEing enough.

Guilt for not DOing enough.

Being in a state of grief and holding onto the past.

Fear of everything!! (which kept us in FREEZE mode)

Desire, anger and pride had us moving. But really, spinning in circles. To be honest, most of the people on this planet are still tied to these frequencies.

And in a fear-based world?

Urgency works.
Scarcity works.
Guilt works.
Savior complexes work.
Gurus thrive.
Manipulation is mistaken for leadership.

When you don’t trust your own judgment, you look outside yourself for someone who “knows better.”

A proven system.

This was the perfect ecosystem for bro marketing, high-pressure tactics, and guru-led business models.

Not because people were dumb.
Because people were afraid.

Fear was familiar.
Fear felt safe.
Fear sold.

That's why I wrote Rise Of The Soulpreneur, and continue to shift, evolve, cut out, and expand this body of work.

I encourage you to really 'think' about this, and then let it move into your heart.

You know what the old world was obsessed with?
Getting.

Every commercial tells you what you are getting.

Getting the bonuses, all the fluff to the stuff because the product, course, offer, service isn't 'good enough'. I can't tell you how many coaches are telling us to add 'all the things' so that we can charge more.

Getting that stack of 'perceived value'.

Example of “getting”:
You land on a sales page for a $997 course and it says:

• 12 modules

• 8 bonus workbooks

• a private Facebook group

• 3 “fast-action” bonuses

• a swipe file library

• a script vault

• a meditation bundle

• lifetime access
  Total value: $14,582

  Your mind says, wow!! Look at what I'm getting!!!
  Your body goes, “ugh… no.”

Getting the safety of certainty, the mind loves that!

You buy a program because it has a 30-day money-back guarantee. Your mind eats that up. It feels safe. It feels logical. You tell yourself, “If it doesn’t work, I’ll just ask for a refund.”

But you never do.

Because once the high of buying wears off, you’re already onto the next thing… and the guarantee was never about actual safety. It was about soothing the mind long enough to make the sale.

That’s the illusion of certainty.
The body never needed it.

It was all about grasping at something outside yourself and hoping it would fill the gap inside.

This is mind candy, it feeds your mind, giving you a false sense of value.

That energy feels tight.
It feels transactional.
It feels like you are trying to win at a game someone else is scoring.

It comes from competition.
It comes from fear.
It comes from scarcity

.

But the world we are stepping into now?
This one is built on receiving.

Think of this like your gut. If you have a toxic gut full of holes, you can chug all the nutrients down, but what is your body able to hold and use?

So many times, I have coaches tell me they don't get what I am throwing down.

It's because they are still conditioned to the old paradigm and frequency, and trying to understand it from the mind, instead of allowing it to land in their body.

The mind was never meant to make all the decisions. It was meant to be a beacon. A transmitter of truth. But we were taught to 'think about it', use our heads, weigh the pros and cons, ect.

Receiving is a felt sense.

Receiving feels completely different.
It is alive, you can feel the truth bumbs, or the tingles down to your toes.

It is the kind of energy that moves you instead of drains you.
It is the feminine frequency of allowing instead of chasing.

Getting fills your mind with information.
Receiving transforms your whole system.

This is why one embodied sentence can land harder than a forty slide presentation, trying to convince you.

Example:
You come across a course with no flashy promises. No “only 3 spots left.” No list of 27 deliverables.

Just a simple message from the creator saying,
“I built this for the version of you who’s tired of performing, ready to drop the mask and attract clients by being 100% YOU.”

And something in your body just exhales.

You finally feel seen, heard and recognized.

You're not in your head about it.
You’re not calculating value.
You’re not weighing pros and cons.
You’re feeling the resonance.

You join because it feels like alignment, not persuasion.

You can already picture or drop into what that feels like.

It is why a single line of truth can shift someone’s entire trajectory.

It is why value stacking feels like noise now.

We are not doing transaction anymore. We are creating relationships.

We are facilitating transformation.

And your body knows the difference every single time.

In 1987, we had what was called the Harmonic Convergence.

It was the alignment of the Sun, Moon, and six planets—Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, and Uranus—all clustered in a harmonic geometric pattern around late Leo/early Virgo on August 16–17, 1987.

There was also a global event led by José Argüelles that marked a collective energetic spike in human consciousness.

These series of events (human design was downloaded the same year) marked the turning point of humanity. We collectively rose above 200 on the consciousness scale.

This is HUGE.

We started waking up to what was possible if we worked together, and was able to become the tipping point through working with astrology and human intention.

After 1987:
We crossed above 207 for the first time, courage, intuition, and inner authority activated on a global scale.

We started to wake up and ask:

“Does this feel true?”
“Do I want this?”
“What do I know?”
“What resonates with MY body?”

This was the beginning of the end for fear-based manipulation.

You know how I said 1987 opened the door?

Yeah…
2020 didn’t just open anything.
It grabbed us by the shoulders and shoved us straight through it.

Because suddenly the world cracked open in real time.

Saturn–Pluto Conjunction (January 12, 2020) This happens every 38 years, but astrologers were watching, knowing that something BIG was going to happen.

Jupiter–Saturn Great Conjunction (December 21, 2020)

The “Age of Air” activation.
A 200-year shift from material to energetic, mind to frequency.
New paradigms, new systems, new consciousness structures.

These two astrological events bookended the entire 2020 rupture.

Everything we trusted, institutions, leaders, systems, routines, fell apart, was restricted, and the band-aids just weren't holding it all together anymore.

And whether we were ready or not, every single one of us got thrown back into ourselves.

At first it felt like chaos. We are social beings, and having to isolate and be by ourselves? That was very uncomfortable.

Our nervous systems, and emotions, the things we’d been ignoring, overriding, suppressing, suddenly became very loud.

“Hey, I’m driving now.”

And honestly?
We didn’t have a choice.

We started feeling truth instead of analyzing it. Conspiracy theories were everywhere!
We started noticing when someone’s energy didn’t match their words.

We started rejecting pressure, timelines, tactics, expectations, outer authority ,not because we were rebellious, but because our bodies finally said, “Enough.”

It was time to start questioning all those in power, and we started rising in our own right to choose.

Because the truth hit:

No one is coming to save me.
And that doesn’t mean I’m alone.
It means I’m powerful.

2020 was the rupture — the tearing open.

In 2025-2026, we have all the outer planets (Saturn, Jupiter, Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) all making their moves into new signs like a progression line. This was meant to move us as a society as well.

You may have heard a lot of messages about 2027, it's not as some mystical finish line, but as a moment we’re actively walking into together. We are creating the new earth, the new way of BEing in the world.

It’s already happening in your body, your decisions, your relationships, your business, your leadership.
You can feel it.
You wouldn’t even be reading this if you didn’t.

We’re moving into a time where the rules aren’t just changing but the entire operating system of being human is upgrading.

Your intuition stops being a whisper
and becomes your primary intelligence.

Your emotional body doesn’t break you, you are no longer a sister of your circumstances, but the creatrix of your matrix.

Leadership stops being “top-down”
and becomes energetic, relational, embodied.

The nervous system becomes the new value stack, because regulated people can’t be manipulated, bought, or bullied.

Truth replaces tactics.
Embodiment replaces branding.
Integrity replaces control.

The old systems, tactics and pressure won't work anymore because they’re built for a world we’re not going back to.

This is a collective mutation, and you are part of the generation that’s ushering it in.
You’re carrying a frequency the old paradigm wasn’t designed to hold.

This is the movement.
This is the moment.
And 2027 isn’t the beginning, it’s the click.

In 2027, we move from the underlying current of the Cross of Planning to the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix. This is Human Design jargon, so let me break it down like this.

For the last few hundred years, the world has been running on “force.”

Force is basically trying to make things happen by pushing, convincing, organizing, controlling, or pressuring.

It’s the energy of:
“We all need to follow the system so things don’t fall apart.”

This is the age of industry and production.

That’s the old world.

The new world we’re stepping into?
It runs on power — personal, empowerment.

The kind that comes from inside, not from rules or fear or trying to manage everyone else.

Here’s the difference in the simplest way:

Force feels like someone trying to make you do something.

It's convincing:
“Come on, hurry, buy this, you should do this, don’t fall behind.”

Your body tightens.
You shut down.
You want to walk away.

or

You get revved up, in survival mode, and reacting with the buy button.

Power feels like something that wakes up inside you.
It feels like a quiet yes.

Something feels real, or right, or obvious, even if you can’t explain why. Using your human design strategy can be so helpful with navigating your bullshit detector.

Your body relaxes.
You lean in.
You want to move forward.

This next era — what Human Design calls the Sleeping Phoenix — is about living from that inner power.

It looks like:

• trusting yourself

• being honest about what feels right

• acting in the moment instead of overthinking

• following what gives you energy instead of drains you

• connecting with people because it feels real, not because you’re supposed to

We’re moving from a world that relied on external systems…
to a world that relies on internal truth.

From forcing life…
to powering life.

And we, the mighty few who are doing the work of diving in deep, deconditioning, healing, and waking up, are the midwives of that shift.

In 2027, we move from the underlying current of the Cross of Planning to the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix. This is Human Design jargon, so let me break it down like this.

For the last few hundred years, the world has been running on “force.”

Force is basically trying to make things happen by pushing, convincing, organizing, controlling, or pressuring.

It’s the energy of:
“We all need to follow the system so things don’t fall apart.”

This is the age of industry and production.

That’s the old world.

The new world we’re stepping into?
It runs on power — personal, empowerment.

The kind that comes from inside, not from rules or fear or trying to manage everyone else.

Here’s the difference in the simplest way:

Force feels like someone trying to make you do something.

It's convincing:
“Come on, hurry, buy this, you should do this, don’t fall behind.”

Your body tightens.
You shut down.
You want to walk away.

or

You get revved up, in survival mode, and reacting with the buy button.

Power feels like something that wakes up inside you.
It feels like a quiet yes.

Something feels real, or right, or obvious, even if you can’t explain why. Using your human design strategy can be so helpful with navigating your bullshit detector.

Your body relaxes.
You lean in.
You want to move forward.

This next era — what Human Design calls the Sleeping Phoenix — is about living from that inner power.

It looks like:

• trusting yourself

• being honest about what feels right

• acting in the moment instead of overthinking

• following what gives you energy instead of drains you

• connecting with people because it feels real, not because you’re supposed to

We’re moving from a world that relied on external systems…
to a world that relies on internal truth.

From forcing life…
to powering life.

And we, the mighty few who are doing the work of diving in deep, deconditioning, healing, and waking up, are the midwives of that shift.

Let me say it clearly:

You can bypass someone’s mind.
You cannot bypass their nervous system.

A regulated nervous system is immune to manipulation.

We’re not here to repair the old world, we are innovating. Taking what worked and leaving out what didn't as we co-create the next era.

A world where:

✨ intuition leads
✨ embodiment matters
✨ sales feel relational
✨ truth lands louder than tactics
✨ sovereignty is standard
✨ success is energetic
✨ leadership is internal
✨ integrity is non-negotiable

This isn’t a strategy you adopt.
It’s a frequency you become.

And you can’t fake it.

We start today.

So the real question becomes:

Are you willing to become the version of you whose integrity is the flex?

Because the new world is already here.
And it’s being built by the people who can hold this frequency.

If this speaks to you — if you can feel something waking up in your chest as you read this — then go deeper with me.

Read Rise of the Soulpreneur — my guide to living in alignment with the 2027 Human Design mutation and the astrology reshaping our world.

This book walks you through the mutation.
It shows you how to rise as the authority of yourself.
It anchors you in your own design.

It is my battle cry for the revolution we’re stepping into.
And if you’re here, reading this, you’re already part of it.