From Confusion to Clarity - Asking The Big Questions Through Gate 64 in Human Design

Gate 64 Vibez...

Ah, Gate 64, known as Confusion in traditional Human Design, Divine Transference in Quantum Human Design™, and Before Completion in the I Ching. We’ve all been there, right? We get that big download or ah ha, and all we can think about is how can I make this happen!!

But here’s the thing: the way we think is a direct reflection of how our inner body is feeling. The moment we stop overthinking, the moment the confusion ends.

This little nugget of wisdom completely changed my life. ✨

Every year around this time, I find myself diving deep into my meditation practice. It’s no coincidence, really. This gate aligns with my moon sign, and what drives my behavior becomes illuminated during this time of year. If you look back at my Facebook feed, you’ll notice a pattern—this is when I get my biggest “aha!” moments and synchronicities.

This year I got the word BRILLIANCE.

Currently, I’m deep into Dr. Joe Dispenza’s audiobook, Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, and let me tell you, I’ve been nodding my head like a bobblehead doll! So much of what he teaches hits right at home. But the line that really stopped me in my tracks came from Richard Rudd’s Gene Keys—a line I had skimmed over many times before but finally felt land with a heart-exploding “YES.”

Thoughts Reflect Feelings

The way we think is a mirror of how we’re feeling. When we can cultivate emotions that are aligned with our higher self—regardless of the chaos happening around us—that’s when we win.

And let me tell you, this is the work of Virgo season: grounding ourselves in practicality, creating healthy habits, and tapping into our body’s wisdom.

But, I’ll be honest: simple doesn’t mean easy. This takes practice—like building a muscle at the gym. It’s a skill that starts with awareness and evolves into a habit.

The Head Center in Human Design plays a huge role here—this is where ideas and inspiration flow, but also where confusion and mental pressure can build up. If we’re not careful, we end up overwhelmed by the noise in our heads instead of grounded in the truth of our body’s wisdom.

Cultivating Emotional Mastery

The key is recognizing when our thoughts are running the show and when they’re just reflections of an unsettled emotional state. When I catch myself in a mental loop, here’s what I ask:

• Am I worrying about the future?
• Am I replaying the past?
• Is it even true?
• Is this just a reaction?
• Is this even mine? (open head and Ajna vibes)
• Will this matter in a year?
• Can I choose to cultivate a different emotional state?
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These questions are a great practical checklist, grounding us in the present moment and helping us cultivate emotions that bring clarity rather than confusion.

Remember, we are sovereign beings—we get to choose how we feel and how we respond to life.

What Are You Choosing?

The next time you find yourself caught in the muk yuk and WTF, pause. Ask yourself: What am I choosing? Can I ground myself in gratitude, peace, or even joy?

We have the power to cultivate the emotions that align us with our highest self. This is a form of nourishment, and in Chinese 5 element healing, we are paying extra attention to our spleen and stomach.

Are you taking in more than you can digest? Are you too busy to get the download?