Be The Pattern Interupt Through Gate 44 In Human Design

Gate 44 Vibez...

Gate 44—traditionally known as the Gate of Patterns in Human Design, the Gate of Truth in Quantum Human Design™, or coming to meet, in the Iching,— is part of the Spleen Center, the home of instinct, intuition, and health, and it’s a personal favorite of mine. This gate lives in my unconscious sun, which means it’s part of the genius and purpose that keeps me healthy, radiant, and thriving. It’s also the place I return to when life feels stuck—a space that asks for awareness, compassion, and a whole lot of self-love.

This energy flows with the metal season in 5-element Chinese healing, aligned with Scorpio’s deep-dive transformation vibes. It’s also connected with the spiritual law of compensation—what you give, you receive, and what you release makes space for what’s meant for you.

Patterns Through Relationships: Past, Present, and Future

Gate 44 helps us recognize patterns within the relationships we’ve had—romantic, platonic, or business. Every person who’s crossed our path has brought a lesson. These connections aren’t random; they’re intentional, like carefully chosen threads woven into the matrix of our lives.

As the creatrix of our own story, we draw in these relationships to teach us, trigger us, or support our growth. The deeper we go into healing, the more the people around us change. But if we’re not paying attention—if we stay stuck in old wounds—the same types of people keep showing up with the same painful lessons.

So, I’ll ask you: What repeating patterns have you noticed in your relationships?

The Instinct to Know Who’s Right for Us

Gate 44 connects with our senses—particularly our sense of smell (not just the nose kind, but that intuitive "gut scent" that comes from the Spleen). You know that feeling—when you just know someone is or isn’t right for you. It’s that inner nudge that whispers, “Pay attention.”

The problem? Passion and desire sometimes override this instinct. Our emotions can pull us into situations that feel exciting in the moment, only for us to later realize we ignored the red flags. Gate 44 challenges us to trust our intuition, even when our heart or desires try to cloud it.

When we do the work to heal our past patterns, the people we attract will shift. New teachers, new lessons, and new levels of growth will appear—but only when we’re willing to do the inner work.

Breaking Free from Patterns, Habits, and Sabotage

Here’s the real talk: It’s not just people who keep us stuck—it’s our own habits, addictions, and subconscious sabotage. We get trapped in patterns where we’re out of alignment with our truth. Gate 44 shows us where we’ve fallen off track, where we’re not living with integrity, and where fear keeps us from moving forward.

The fear says:

• What if I never learn from my past mistakes?
• What if I’m destined to fail?
• What if I can’t break free from this cycle?
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But Gate 44 gives us the power to interrupt the pattern. Fear doesn’t have to be the enemy—it can become the fuel that drives us forward. If fear has been your comfort zone, why not feel the fear of something new and exciting instead? Turn that fear into momentum and use it to step into your truth.